There is a saying like this: If life is mixed, it will become a story, if it is not mixed, it will become an accident.
Since it is an accident, there are reasons for the accident, that is, as long as it is properly controlled, it can be avoided.
People who have mixed their lives into accidents basically have the following three reasons. Haha!
Allow your own inaction
A friend told me a few days ago that the boss was too harsh on me, and a report has been changed no less than seven or eight times. It is too critical and there is nothing to change.
I asked her if it was better to change. She said, that's for sure, can it be changed so many times?
This is actually the theory.
Many of us are always too easy to forgive ourselves, and think that it is almost enough, but you think it is actually much worse.
I once saw a story like this: a prestigious priest told a story to a church student. A hunter took a hunting dog to hunt. The hunter hit the rabbit's hind leg with a single shot. The rabbit ran desperately. Chasing after all.
After a while, the hunting dog came back to the hunter and returned empty-handed. The hunter said angrily, "You can't even catch an injured rabbit. It's so useless."
The rabbit with a gunshot wound stumbled to the door of the house. The companions said, "You are terrific. The hunting dog is fierce. How did you escape?"
The rabbit said weakly: "He did his best, but I did my best. He couldn't catch me, he was scolded at most. If I were caught by him, he would be dead!"
When the pastor finished the story, he said to the students, "If anyone can recite the entire contents of Chapters 5 to 7 of the Bible and Matthew, he will invite anyone to attend the" Space Needle "tower restaurant in Seattle Free dinner party. "
A few days later, a child really recited this content in class, and it was not bad, it was smooth.
The pastor was shocked and asked the child, how did you do it, and how did you memorize such a long paragraph?
The child replied without thinking, "I do my best."
This child is Bill Gates, the world's richest man we know.
What you think of as hard as possible is just the beginning to others, and talented people are also afraid of the hard-working master, be hard on yourself, don't always forgive yourself for your inaction.
Complaining about addiction
Beside us, you will definitely meet some complaining colleagues or friends. Please stay away from them. This may be one of the most wise choices you make.
I often hear people complaining about why no one is there to help me. Where is my Bole? If Zhang San had n’t pulled him because of the pharaoh next door, how could he mix so well!
Excuse me, you don't even want to run two laps. Who knows if you are a Maxima?
Everyone is very busy. There is no value to use. Who will pull you. If you are a fool who can't afford it, wouldn't it be a waste of energy.
Some people also complain that the market environment is not good. I have no education background, two have no connections, three have no background, and no rich dad. Of course, I am not as good as you.
First of all, your education is not high, it is your own reason, there is nothing to complain about. Besides, your education is not the only factor that affects your achievement. You are just because you are lazy and afraid of struggling.
Secondly, there is no network connection. That is because you are not good enough. Only you are good. The circles you have contacted are upgraded, so your network will also be upgraded.
Someone complained that I was dead, and that ’s it for my life!
In fact, fate is completely in your own hands, don't complain, everything is on your own.
Whether we are in life or at work, many people will be troubled by "procrastination." Things always like to drag backwards, in fact because of laziness.
After reading "Journey to the West", you will find that all the fairies have one of the biggest problems: procrastination. You said that you worked hard to catch the Tang Monk, so you hurried up to bite two bites, and whether you were still frying or boiled there. In the end, you could n’t even eat the hair, and you were killed.
We always push things to do tomorrow, but after tomorrow comes, we push back and forth again and again, and in the end nothing can be done.
If you really want to work hard to change your situation, learn now.
Entering society is the beginning of our true learning, which is exactly the opposite of many people's ideas. Many people think that studying is a matter for students. What do I need to learn after I leave school?
When it comes to learning direction, many people will ask, what industry is the most promising now? I think it's very good to develop in the direction of community operation. You can understand it by looking at the picture below. Haha!
To life, you are a student; to the skills you do not master, you are a layman.
Some people say: Five years after graduation, what you do after work determines the gap.
Whether it is mixed or not is caused by yourself. No one has the obligation to help you, except yourself!